During Aidilfitri celebration, we loved to visit our relatives.Yup...Haven't seem them quite a long time. As for the kids (i mean people who aged 12 and below) , its time for duit raya..yeay!!
Meeting cousins..chat and eating kuih raya and special dishes(bet, i'm gaining weight after this...)
Hokay...Last Saturday , we went to Atuk Cu's house somewhere in PJ.
Wan Cu was as happy as usual. I adore her~
Her birthday was on 2nd Oct.Happy belated birthday ait.
So..we ate her yummy2 birthday cake made by her friend..It was sweet...
Daddy wanted to taste it.But i remind him bout his health condition.
dad: [smile and took another spoon of it]
me : Daddy....
dad: ...[smile again and ate it]
me : hurmm..[continue eating]
Then, suddenly Wan Cu pat me slowly and said.
w.cu : Teh, let him eat..
me : But, he got....
w.cu : He know his condition better than you dear. Of course he's conscious bout his health. No worry, he know what to do.
me : Dr told me to..
w.cu : Teh ,listen. Having a sickness ain't a happy thing. When i was young i did the exact things that u did just now .My mum was ill, yet she still wanna do the dishes. I asked her to do nothing except rest and she said...
"Eh eh, duduk dekat rumah kamu ni macam tetamu pula",[she left me with sad face]
I realized that she was hurt with my word. From then on, i let her do what ever she want. And i'm happy to see her happy doing it.
me : Uuurmm[OMG what hav i done ..is daddy hurt?? although he's smiling just now? what does the smile mean?]
w.cu: My intention is just want her to relax, but end up, i hurt her feelings.i'm guilty wit it and don't want you to repeat the same mistake.
me: Alright wan Cu, i won't do it again. Promise.
w.cu: Take a good care of ur dad ok?
me : ait..Noded my head.
It is good to be conscious bout our parent's health. But, don't overdo it as if you were their Dr.
Make them happy when they're still here,alive .Show them how much we love them.
Sorry dad.I didn't mean to hurt you.